It really gets up my goat when guys drop their friends (who are girls in this instance) whenever they get a girlfriend. Why can’t we stay friends?
I have this so-called ‘best friend’ who drops me like a fucking hot potato every time he gets a new girlfriend. I mean, I kind of understand why he does it, but it’s not much fun being on the receiving end of it let me tell you.
ESPECIALLY because I don’t have a ‘significant other’ to focus that lost friend energy onto. I have simply just lost a friend. Because some stupid girl has insecurity issues! Ok, so she’s probably not stupid, that’s just me being vengeful. Which I’m not – really. It just upsets me that this always happens. I just get thrown to the way-side because these new girlfriends can’t deal with their ‘boyfriend’ having a female friend in their life. Ugh. Get over your insecurities people! I know it’s easier said than done, sure. Who am I to talk? But why can’t people just believe and trust in their partners? Denying your partner a friend (especially one whom they’ve known for years) is not a very nice thing. If I had a boyfriend, I wouldn’t tell him who he can and can’t be friends with. That’s just not right in my book. Similarly a friend can’t tell you who you can and can’t date.
Rant over. I need to get back to Italian study. If you have any thoughts on this issue, don’t be shy.
(NB: The title of this post in relation to the content refers to a personal joke with said friend. Oh, and also double pun in reference to drop bears – which some of you may not know: therefore – google.)
Oh, also side note: goats are hilarious creatures 🙂